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I mean, I know: some cute college guy who spells his texts properly and actually seems to wash his face (be still my beating heart) can be pretty tough crush competition for the bros in your 10th grade math class.

And if there’s one thing of which I’m certain about you Rookies, it’s this: to borrow a compliment frequently expressed to you by your grandpa/kindly next-door neighbor/best friend’s mom, YOU ARE VERY MATURE FOR YOUR AGE.

And so this article is gonna focus on the not-so-fun stuff—the things I didn’t know or understand back then, and that maybe you don’t now.

So, here are the things I wish someone had talked to me about when I was 15—if they had, I doubt I would have acted on my proclivity for adult men at least until it was legal for me to do so, or maybe I would have just dialed my actions back a little.

power over teenagers and females adds extra force to the power differential in this kind of arrangement.

At some point we’ll do a piece on age differences in queer relationships, but this one is about teenage girls dating older dudes. (That said, most [but not all] of this advice will apply to sexual/romantic relationships involving people of any and all genders.) Finally, I don’t mean for this article to read as “A HORRIBLE OLD MAN TOOK MY YOUTHFUL INNOCENCE,” because that’s not what happened.

“Don’t put them on the defensive,” says Ettin, who runs online dating service A Little Nudge. A good follow-up on a Friday afternoon for instance, might be inquiring about the person’s weekend plans. “That just means you’re creepy or desperate,” Ray says.On those sites “you should assume they’ve read your message and if they don’t respond, they’re just not that into you.” If you do double text, Hinge data suggests that you should only do so 3 hours and 52 minutes after you’ve sent your first message.But don’t worry if your match has temporarily slipped your mind: even those who double texted a week after initially reaching out were more than twenty times likelier to get a response than if they had left things alone. “A lot of first-time online daters will say ‘hey’ or ‘what’s up’ as a first message,” says Ray. “The mistake a lot of people make is not giving others insight into who they are.” There are two big things double texters should avoid.It doesn’t mean you have “daddy issues” or whatever; that phrase doesn’t actually mean anything, because it can be applied (or, preferably, not) to every person on the planet.Being attracted to someone older just means you are a human person who sometimes thinks other human people are sexy!

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